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WHERE ARE YOU RIGHT NOW?
Question 2 of 25
What best describes this season of your life? Choose the one that feels closest.
I'm rebuilding after divorce, separation, or a difficult relationship.
I'm still in my relationship, but I've lost myself somewhere along the way.
My children are getting older or leaving home, and I'm wondering what's next for me.
I've spent years focused on my family and want to rediscover myself.
I'm thinking about returning to work, changing careers, or doing something that's mine.
I've been through a difficult season and I'm ready to rebuild.
My life looks okay from the outside, but something still feels off
I'm not sure. I just know I don't want to keep living like this
Let's look at what you may still be carrying.
Question 4 of 25
How often does your past influence the decisions you make today?
Rarely
Sometimes
Often
Almost always
Question 5 of 25
How often do you change what you want, say, or do to avoid conflict or disappointing someone?
Question 6 of 25
When something goes wrong, how quickly do you question or blame yourself?
Question 7 of 25
How difficult is it for you to say "no" without feeling guilty?
Not difficult
A little difficult
Very difficult
Extremely difficult
Question 8 of 25
Do you feel like you're still living according to old roles, expectations, or beliefs that no longer fit you?
Not really
A little
Quite a bit
Absolutely
Now let's look at your relationship with yourself.
Question 10 of 25
If I asked you to name your five most important personal values, could you?
Yes, easily
I could name a few
I'd have to really think about it
I honestly don't know
Question 11 of 25
How clear are you about what YOU want in this season of your life?
Very clear
Somewhat clear
Not very clear
I have no idea
Question 12 of 25
How much do you trust yourself when making important decisions?
A lot
Most of the time
Not very much
I constantly second-guess myself
Question 13 of 25
How comfortable are you expressing what you need in your relationships?
Very comfortable
Sometimes comfortable
Usually uncomfortable
I rarely express what I need
Question 14 of 25
Outside of being a mother, wife, partner, employee, caretaker, or other role—do you know who YOU are?
Yes
I'm starting to
I'm not sure anymore
Honestly, no
Let's look at the life you're building next.
Question 16 of 25
Are you excited about where your life is heading?
I don't know where it's heading
Question 17 of 25
Do you have personal goals that belong to YOU—not your children, partner, family, or employer?
Yes, and I'm working toward them
I have some ideas
I haven't thought about myself that way in a long time
Question 18 of 25
When you know something needs to change, what usually happens?
I take action
I start but struggle to stay consistent
I overthink it and get stuck
I usually put it off
Question 19 of 25
How much of your current life feels intentionally chosen by you?
Most of it
Some of it
Very little of it
Question 20 of 25
If nothing changed over the next three years, how would you feel?
Content
A little disappointed
Very disappointed
I don't want to imagine that
YOUR NEXT CHAPTER
Question 22 of 25
What area of your life would you most like to change right now?
My relationship with myself
Confidence and self-trust
Boundaries
Marriage or relationships
Life after divorce/separation
Motherhood / Empty Nest
Career / Returning to work
Purpose and direction
Daily routines and habits
Building a new life
I'm not sure yet
Question 23 of 25
Finish this sentence: If I could change one thing about my life right now, it would be...
Question 24 of 25
What do you feel is keeping you from making that change?
Question 25 of 25
Imagine it's one year from today and you feel genuinely good about the life you're living. What's different?